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Q. Where do I get the free condoms at? -Anthony
A.Dear Anthony,
Check with your local Planned Parenthood Clinic or County Health Department, as some may give out free condoms. If you are currently attending a University, check to see if there is a Sexual Health Education program. Usually these programs receive large donations of condoms to hand out to the student body for free.I would also check with your school’s health center. Though they may not have free condoms, you can more than likely purchase a decent amount for just a few dollars. Lastly, you can request free samples by visiting the official websites of various condom companies. Hope that helps!
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Q. Does a condom always work or does it only stop spreading diseases? -Sex in UK
A. Dear Sex in UK,
When used correctly, condoms are 98% effective in preventing pregnancy and the spread of sexually transmitted infections and diseases. However, typical use of condoms makes them only 85% effective. Here are instructions for the proper use of condoms to maximize you and your partner’s safety:

1) Check the expiration date. NEVER use an expired condom.
2) Squeeze the center of the package. If you feel an air bubble, then it is safe to assume that the condom has not been punctured and is acceptable for use.
3) Gently push the condom to one side in the package and carefully open the package, making sure not to tear the condom.
4) The condom should resemble a “sombrero” rather than a “beanie” prior to rolling it onto the penis or phallic object. This means that the edges of the condom should be rolled over and not be rolled under.
5) Pinch the tip of the condom so there is a reservoir to collect ejaculation and prevent breakage.
6) Roll the condom down so it covers the entire penis. If there is a foreskin, pull it back before rolling the condom down.
7) You may want to add lubricant to the outside of the condom or to the areas of penetration. Never use oil-based lube with latex condoms as oil degrades latex! Try water-based or silicon-based lubes.
8) After sex, hold the base of the condom and pull the penis out before it becomes soft. Tie and throw away!

Notes: -Use a new condom for every different sex act/site of penetration
-If the condom is initially put on incorrectly, throw it away and use another one.
-Condoms can also be used on sex toys and are particularly recommended if the toys are being shared or used by multiple partners. Make sure each person uses a new condom and that condoms are changed for each site of penetration.
-You can add a drop or two of lube inside the condom prior to putting it on for increased comfort and sensation.
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